the slow Journey...

Thursday, August 13, 2009

As requested!

2 weeks late! and as requested, shall post a small wish list here for B E T Y

hahaha, kinda late but..... yeaaa.

1)Cool going out slippers, or whatever you call those from beetlebug, etc.

2)Nice shoes to go out!

3) Funky skinny Tie. must be cool too of course! haha

So its Cool, Nice or Funky! take a pick :)
This sat confirm ONZ! no more no show!

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

One NIght

In one night, all that i've known. Shattered.

its a new world i guess!

Thursday, July 23, 2009

Warm nostalgic feeling :)

Just had a nice warm nostalgic feeling when iTunes shuffled to 回到过去. :) ahhhh, the days back then in the classrooms of AJ and the free periods on Friday morning

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

I want to talk to someone, but i really cant

Monday, May 25, 2009


Well.... dunno what to make of this but what are these negatives im seeing?
yea yea, u said just don care and ignore/ accept it as nth like u did.

errmmm... alright... ill try? i guess.

Sunday, May 3, 2009

Never be the same again?

Saturday, May 2, 2009

why why why

WHY why whyy am i somehow feeling this way and affected by smth so stupid recently.

not very good

not very good now too. :(

i hope its just maybe im tired and not enough sleep
or even post exam stress!

like pieces driftwood

Friday, May 1, 2009


re⋅la⋅tion⋅ship /rɪˈleɪʃənˌʃɪp/ Show Spelled Pronunciation [ri-ley-shuhn-ship] –noun
1. a connection, association, or involvement.
2. connection between persons by blood or marriage.
3. an emotional or other connection between people: the relationship between teachers and students.

Conflicts in a relationship, and im talking about relationships in general not only BGR for those who are so caught up in it, they are inevitable and necessary.

Why Inevitable? As people get closer, their mindsets and mental models tend to work closer and even meld with each other, influence each other more, etc. Tada!, conflicts or disagreements will naturally arise. Becoming more open with each other contributes too.

However these are all vital in the proccess of bringing a relationship (friend, BG, family) closer. Without conflicts there will be no new revelations about each other, no further understanding and ultimately you either 1.remain in the status quo or 2.regress and drift apart, with or without the test of time. Additionally conflicts are a part of human nature, so please dont claim that you've experienced zero conflicts in your life unless you are en emotional dud or a snail. If there are no conflicts in a relationship, how can you even claim to know each other??

Of course, conflicts good provided they do not stay and get resolved. Yup. Not shoved under the bed and ignored just to avoid the conflict. True, ignoring and not laboriously seeking the root of the conflict just to let things move on quickly is a good thing. But Shoving it away just fills up the backup container containing all things undesirable such as these unresolved conflicts. And like all containers they eventually fill up and overflow. Which is a bad thing. It even serves as a catalyst for more conflicts to come and erupt.
Resolution to a conflict means potentially thrashing it out directly to find out whats up with both sides and understanding both parties, empathy. You get to know more about each other's irks, sensitivities, dislikes, etc. Bringing you to a deeper understanding with the other party. Strengthening the relationship! A healthy cycle involving a not so desirable situation.

Monday, April 27, 2009

hmmm, sometimes i really wonder why within a clique of friends there are 'cover ups', deliberate omission of information. makes me kinda wonder about it, but yup as u said no one else except that person knows

Sunday, April 26, 2009


Unbreakable, Westlife - back in 2002 November over at the Philippines.
Queen of My heart, Westlife - End 2003 when i listened to more songs.
七里香 - JC
倒带 - JC free periods
轨迹 - 2005
我不难过 - 2005
至少还有你,林忆莲 - End of J2. the song that helped me score in physics prelim.
Maybe, Kelly Clarkson - 2006, start of my very first tuition. On my way frm camp.

你快乐我内伤 - Now

Shall add to the list in the future, of songs that are tagged to certain points in my life. Cant really recall off hand. hmmm