Tuesday, June 9, 2009
I want to talk to someone, but i really cant
by the snail at 10:14 PM |
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Monday, May 25, 2009
idk
Well.... dunno what to make of this but what are these negatives im seeing?yea yea, u said just don care and ignore/ accept it as nth like u did.
errmmm... alright... ill try? i guess.
by the snail at 10:10 PM |
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Saturday, May 2, 2009
why why why
WHY why whyy am i somehow feeling this way and affected by smth so stupid recently.not very good
not very good now too. :(
i hope its just maybe im tired and not enough sleep
or even post exam stress!
like pieces driftwood
by the snail at 11:16 PM |
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Friday, May 1, 2009
Conflcit
re⋅la⋅tion⋅ship /rɪˈleɪʃənˌʃɪp/ Show Spelled Pronunciation [ri-ley-shuhn-ship] –noun1. a connection, association, or involvement.
2. connection between persons by blood or marriage.
3. an emotional or other connection between people: the relationship between teachers and students.
Conflicts in a relationship, and im talking about relationships in general not only BGR for those who are so caught up in it, they are inevitable and necessary.
Why Inevitable? As people get closer, their mindsets and mental models tend to work closer and even meld with each other, influence each other more, etc. Tada!, conflicts or disagreements will naturally arise. Becoming more open with each other contributes too.
However these are all vital in the proccess of bringing a relationship (friend, BG, family) closer. Without conflicts there will be no new revelations about each other, no further understanding and ultimately you either 1.remain in the status quo or 2.regress and drift apart, with or without the test of time. Additionally conflicts are a part of human nature, so please dont claim that you've experienced zero conflicts in your life unless you are en emotional dud or a snail. If there are no conflicts in a relationship, how can you even claim to know each other??
Of course, conflicts good provided they do not stay and get resolved. Yup. Not shoved under the bed and ignored just to avoid the conflict. True, ignoring and not laboriously seeking the root of the conflict just to let things move on quickly is a good thing. But Shoving it away just fills up the backup container containing all things undesirable such as these unresolved conflicts. And like all containers they eventually fill up and overflow. Which is a bad thing. It even serves as a catalyst for more conflicts to come and erupt.
Resolution to a conflict means potentially thrashing it out directly to find out whats up with both sides and understanding both parties, empathy. You get to know more about each other's irks, sensitivities, dislikes, etc. Bringing you to a deeper understanding with the other party. Strengthening the relationship! A healthy cycle involving a not so desirable situation.
by the snail at 1:56 AM |
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Monday, April 27, 2009
hmmm, sometimes i really wonder why within a clique of friends there are 'cover ups', deliberate omission of information. makes me kinda wonder about it, but yup as u said no one else except that person knows
by the snail at 2:35 AM |
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Sunday, April 26, 2009
Songs
Unbreakable, Westlife - back in 2002 November over at the Philippines.Queen of My heart, Westlife - End 2003 when i listened to more songs.
七里香 - JC
倒带 - JC free periods
轨迹 - 2005
我不难过 - 2005
至少还有你，林忆莲 - End of J2. the song that helped me score in physics prelim.
Maybe, Kelly Clarkson - 2006, start of my very first tuition. On my way frm camp.
你快乐我内伤 - Now
Shall add to the list in the future, of songs that are tagged to certain points in my life. Cant really recall off hand. hmmm
by the snail at 6:46 PM |
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Monday, April 20, 2009
P.S. I Hate you
Dear Econs,You are just like a boomerang
WHY??
P.S. I Hate you
Regards
Me
by the snail at 8:37 PM |
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Friday, April 10, 2009
Beautifully imperfect
by the snail at 12:20 AM |
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Wednesday, March 25, 2009
A snap
A snap and a 2.5mins routine felt like it was over in 2 secs2 days have passed since cheerobics and wow was it phenomenal despite the not so desirable location.
Everything went up up uP! and Down only when it was time.
A great feeling, a great team, a great dance, a great routine.
Best Dance in my opinion, not a biased view too as it was echoed by many others! Also theres smth about this that wont make me feel bored watching it many times :D
Sense of achievement i suppose.
Well..... we conquered ourselves that day and next time..... we shall put up a better show. A crushing one i say.
Few aims that i can think of for this year....... to be able to single base.......to be able to do scorpion like jY!....... and to put on weight -.-
G.DT : Denvers Team Lead the way
All the way
by the snail at 2:47 AM |
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